eghan Markle and Princess Kate were both “crying their eyes out” after an argument about bridesmaids’ dresses, according to a royal biography that differs from Meghan’s own account.
The Duchess of Sussex told Oprah Winfrey in 2021 that a major turning point in coverage of her by the British press came with an article suggesting she had made Kate cry.
In fact, Meghan argued, the reverse was true and Kate had made her cry and apologized later with a bunch of flowers.
Now a new biography, Yes, Ma’am: The Secret Life of Royal Servants, by Tom Quinn, has offered an alternative perspective on the incident. It has not been confirmed by either side.
A royal staff member was quoted in the book saying: “I can tell you that all the papers and commentators got this wrong, the truth is that as with many of these spats between sisters, brothers or even sisters-in-law, both sides were really upset.”
“The truth is that during the discussions about the bridesmaid’s dress Meghan said a few things she regretted and Kate said a few things she later regretted, but it was all in the heat of the moment,” the staff member continued. “Both women were crying their eyes out!”
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Meghan Markle’s Account to Oprah Winfrey
The account directly contradicts Meghan’s version to Winfrey, in which she said Kate had later apologized: “The reverse happened. And I don’t say that to be disparaging to anyone, because it was a really hard week of the wedding.
“And she was upset about something, but she owned it, and she apologized. And she brought me flowers and a note, apologizing. And she did what I would do if I knew that I hurt someone, right, to just take accountability for it.”
“A few days before the wedding,” Meghan continued, “she was upset about something pertaining—yes, the issue was correct—about flower-girl dresses, and it made me cry, and it really hurt my feelings.”
Prince Harry’s Account in Spare
Harry went into more detail, suggesting Kate had called Meghan days before the wedding to say Princess “Charlotte’s dress is too big, too long, too baggy. She cried when she tried it on at home.”
According to Harry, Meghan replied: “Right, and I told you the tailor has been standing by since 8 a.m. Here. At KP [Kensington Palace]. Can you take Charlotte to have it altered, as the other moms are doing?”
“No, all the dresses need to be remade,” Kate said.
Harry wrote: “Her own wedding dress designer agreed, Kate added. Meg asked if Kate was aware of what was going on right now. With her father.
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“Kate said she was well aware, but the dresses. ‘And the wedding is in four
days!'”
“A short time later I arrived home and found Meg on the floor. Sobbing,” he continued.
“I was horrified to see her so upset, but I didn’t think it a catastrophe. Emotions were running high, of course, after the stress of the last week, the last month, the last day. It was intolerable—but temporary. Kate hadn’t meant any harm, I told her.”
Later in the book, he described Harry and Meghan meeting Prince William and Kate to discuss press coverage that accused Meghan of making Kate cry: “Kate got things rolling straightaway by acknowledging that these stories in the papers about Meg making her cry were totally false. ‘I know, Meghan, that I was the one who made you cry.’
“I sighed. Excellent start, I thought. Meg appreciated the apology, but wanted to know why the papers had said this, and what was being done to correct them?”
‘A Storm in a Teacup’
The staff member quoted in the new biography told Quinn the whole saga had been blown out of proportion in the media: “Whenever this sort of thing happens in the royal family, traditionally no one says anything publicly about it so it rarely reaches the media, but on this occasion all sorts of other grievances meant that what was really nothing but a storm in a teacup reached the media and became a big issue.
“The other thing people forget is that when a private royal argument or row reaches the media, it gets subtly altered and usually made more significant than it really is.
“But even the royals tend to believe what they read in the newspapers if it suits them, so the incident with the bridesmaid’s dress became a kind of marker for all the other problems that Meghan had with Kate and with William and other members of the family.”
Important message from Kate Middleton: she’s confirmed the news about her son, Prince George
Kate Middleton and Prince William have returned to social media to share an important message about their son, Prince George. Through their Instagram profile, the future British monarchs have confirmed the cancellation of their vacations and those of their other children for a significant reason.
As of today, the Prince and Princess of Wales are enjoying a private vacation with their children, George, Charlotte, and Louis. This family break coincides with the mid-term school holiday, which is typical in the United Kingdom.
However, their responsibilities as active members of the British royal family remain present even during moments of rest. So much so that, according to reports, a tragic breaking news event has forced Kate Middleton and her husband to temporarily interrupt their vacation retreat.
On Monday, May 26, during Liverpool’s Premier League title celebration, a serious incident shocked the entire country. A man was involved in a multiple hit-and-run on Water Street, leaving 47 people injured (47 personas), four of whom are in serious condition.
Given the seriousness of what happened, Kate Middleton and Prince William did not hesitate to interrupt Prince George’s and his siblings’ vacation to break their silence. Through the stories on their official Instagram profile, the Prince and Princess of Wales published a message showing their dismay:
“We are deeply dismayed by what happened yesterday in Liverpool. What should have been a joyful celebration ended in tragedy. Our thoughts are with the injured and with the emergency services and first responders on the ground.”
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An emotional message that is even more meaningful considering Prince William’s strong involvement with English soccer. In fact, Kate Middleton’s husband is not only an Aston Villa fan, but he also holds the honorary presidency of the Football Association of England.
Meanwhile, Charles III and Queen Camilla have also issued an emotional statement through their communications team. “We are deeply dismayed and saddened to learn of the terrible event that took place in Liverpool on Monday,” the monarchs’ statement begins.
“It is truly devastating to see that what should have been a joyful celebration for so many could end in such distressing circumstances,” they add. The monarchs’ message ended with words of support for the city.
“In these very painful times for the people of Liverpool, I know that the strength of the community spirit for which your city is known will be a comfort and support to those who need it. Our prayers and our deepest condolences are with all those affected.”
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Kate Middleton not only fulfills her duties as part of the British royal family, but she also has a very clear essential rule in the education of her three children. Beyond academic subjects, the future queen of the United Kingdom places special emphasis on an aspect she considers as essential as learning mathematics.
A difficult test that changed priorities
Just over a year ago, Kate Middleton’s life took an unexpected turn with the announcement of her illness. The news shocked the Royal Family and brought to the forefront the importance of family and emotional well-being. This episode also coincided with King Charles III’s cancer diagnosis, which created a double challenge for the royal family.
Prince William had to take on institutional and family responsibilities, supporting his wife throughout the entire process. This period marked for Kate the urgency to keep her children united and care for them with special attention. The experience made it clear that education is not just a matter of good grades, but also of values that strengthen character.
An education that prioritizes family unity and values
The British press follows every step of the Prince and Princess of Wales, especially the details related to their children. Months ago, it was already known that Kate and William decided that their three little ones would attend secondary school together, breaking with the royal tradition of sending them to separate schools.
For Kate, keeping her children close has been key after her illness. In addition, she imposes a strict rule: teaching her children the importance of qualities such as empathy, respect, and honesty. “My parents taught me the importance of kindness, respect, and honesty,” she confessed in a public appearance.
The princess insists that these values are as vital as achieving good results in mathematics or sports. According to her, only in this way will her children be able to successfully face the challenges that await them.
More than toys or trips: emotional support is key
Kate Middleton has not only spoken about the importance of academic and moral education. In difficult moments, she has publicly reflected on how essential emotional support is in the family. In a video when she communicated her illness, she recalled that the most valuable thing is “to love and be loved.”
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In addition, in an interview, the princess expressed that the priority is not the number of toys or trips her children have, but ensuring them the necessary emotional support. She stated that this support must come from the adults around them.
The family has shown that their unity comes first. William, for example, didn’t hesitate to miss official events to be by Kate’s side. Meanwhile, she decided to keep her illness private so her children could see her strong and calm, sparing them worries.
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